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reader, kitkat1643  +, writes (2 December 2012):
well you simply a small kiss then you can put your tounge in his mouth
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reader, UserNameUnavailable +, writes (9 June 2010):
It just happens, the way you kiss. But i know what you mean.. me and my boyfriend have been together for four months and only a kiss. Don't think there's anything wrong with you, he'll snog you when he feels ready for it. But in the meantime.. if things don't kick off, try opening you lips a bit when you kiss and if he introduces his tongue too yours, just go with the flow. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): i felt exacly the same the first time i snogged sum1 and i was really nervous! its actually really easy, just relax and follow your instincts. if ur not happy then stop...gd luk and i hope u enjoy it!
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reader, BurstMyBubble x +, writes (27 July 2008):
 just relax about it. slowley move closer into him then just stare at him and go for it. peck his lips then tilt your head to one side and slowley open your mouth. then simply slide your tongue in & enjoy it. on my first time my mate told me that if you roll ure own tongue to the top of ure mouth thats what it feels like. my first snog was so straight forward and theres no need to worry, good luck =)! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): Just confront your boyfriend. Im sure he will understand. Or if you dont want to confront your boyfriend tell a close friend about your problem. One way or another you will be able to sort it out, Im sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): omg i feel the exact same way but well io have learned and tried. well still keep going on sites but all u do is maybe lay together if not stand or sit really close and naturally kiss and then if its a hot day ask them are u hot and if its a cold day ask if cold then say ill keep u warm or i'll cool u down and then kiss but then go that step further and put your tongue into his mouth with any luck he will the same back to you. thankyou tammy
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reader, arp4hecg +, writes (5 December 2006):
 i know exactly how you feel i had the same probablem last month im 14 and had been with my boyfriend for about 4 months and really wanted to take it a bit further i no it can seem awkward but i swear when you start then you will find it the best i can't really tell you exactly how to do it as every 1 has there own special way of doing it but i suggest some where private move in closer to him and gently peck his lips if he seems to enjoy that do the same thing but kiss for a bit longer and withdraw if he pulls away then he is probably not ready for a 'snog' yet if he seems to enjoy that gently open his lips on the next long kiss with your toungue and slowly put your toungue inside his mouth gently stroke his toungue with your toungue, if he enjoys it he will prob place his tongue into your mouth slightly but if he withdraws away frrom you then leave it for a while before trying again as he is probably not readdy and remember don't get all hiped up over it like i did it makes things alot harder. so good luck and happy kissing lol
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (4 December 2006):
 Just enjoy it. I know it doesn't seem like much advice at all but if you enjoy it then you will tend to play with him more.
Besides everyone kisses differently and you will kiss differently too with different guys. Take it slow at first, you might get a guy that may seem that he's spelunking (cave exploring) rather than kissing then you'll have to gently let him know how you prefer that he kiss you. But for now it's an awesome adventure. Tongue wrestling is a great sport (pity it's not an olympic games recognised sport) but remember that it can generate sexual feelings and you must know when to stop. Go girl.
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reader, heartofahoplessromantic +, writes (4 December 2006):
 hey. At one point or another everyone stresses over their first kiss, But the only advice i can give is to just go for it, there is no right or wrong way to do it. good luck
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