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30-35,
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writes:Okay, well im 15 and theres this guy i really like, he is 17. we have known each other for a few years now and get on pretty well, he can become flirty with me sometimes but i havent told him i like him as more yet. anyway we are going away to italy with a group soon, and i said i would sit next to him. its a 28hrs coach journey to where we are going, and obviously we will need to sleep, i really want to be able to fall asleep on his shoulder, but im worried what his reaction will be, aslo how can i cuddle up to him ? any tips or anything wuld be really helpful. thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): You are both quite young and you dont want to spoil, what could be a trip of a lifetime. Keep things light and fun, stop day dreaming about your head on his shoulder. Make a point of not putting your head anywhere near his shoulder. Dont get into heavy stuff before you have even got to know him. if you are going to sit with him, have so fun things to talk about. Favourite groups, cds etc. But be warned, guys can get scared witless by pushy girls who put their head on their shoulders.
Have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Ahem,...well, anonymous young friend, speaking as a guy who really was fifteen at one time and does remember it, I would say you are perhaps letting your fantasies get a little ahead of your common sense. It should be really easy to sit next him on occasion. How about just, "may I sit and talk for a minute? I would like to ask you about something (doesn't matter what...something about cameras or what type of film to use, etc.) Most guys are more willing to talk about mechanical gadgetry. You can make the conversations easier as you go along. But, if you are still fantasizing about loooong rides with your head on his shoulder and being cuddled, perhaps you should "cool" your dreams a bit. Take it slow. Be realistic. You don't want to frighten him off at first attempt...(smile).
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