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writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for four months and i thought everything was going great. At the moment he is currently temping for work so could be let go at any time. I dont feel like we're in a proper relationship. He's told me he loves me and would like to be with me all the time. He never seems to do anything romantic, we split things evenly (which i dont mind) but its as tho i have to prompt him with things, last night i saw him for an hour because he was tired, he went home and played on a new playstation game and stayed up all night! Its frustrating because i feel as tho i need more from him, am i being selfish? If i cut our dates short or re-arrange them (with plenty of notice) he sulks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): I have the exact same problem..my boyfriend can stay up late night playing playstation but hates to talk to me on the phone for 5 mins! its very annoying i know exactly how you feel.. your not selfish at all.. he is selfish you should ignore him and find something to be busy with.. treat him the same way he treats you and if he asked you why are you being cold.. tell him this is how you feel and talk to him about it.. guys wont understand until they are put in the situation!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): I seems to me like his attitude is a bit childish. I think he probably like being in a relationship now and then but not all the time. He likes playing on his games station over the night and yet he uses an excuse and says he is tired. Sorry, but i think he need to grow up. Tell him how you feel and talk to him about it. If you get no joy then i think he is probably always going to be like this. Do you want a future with him? er i think not. If talking doesnt move him into action then move on.
take care
xx
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
Your boyfriend sound a bit selfish to me,it is not nice being treated this way,he is putting his play station above your relationship, and with him sulking it makes matters worse, you will have to talk this over with him properly and ask him if he loves his ps more than you.
if i was in this situation i now who i would rather be with and believe me it would not be a play station.
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