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writes: dear cupid,soo there's this guy that i've recently taken an interest in; a mutual friend gave him my cell phone number, he started texting me, and we just really hit it off. we've been on three dates, and they were all absolutely awesome...especially our first date. he decided that we were going to the lake, and we spent practically all night out there. it was just really sweet and romantic and cute--seriously like something out of a movie.both of us have agreed that being a romantic is a must for a significant other, and as far as i'm concerned, he has already passed that test with flying colors. and now, i want to show him that i, too, am a romantic...buuut i can't really come up with any good ideas as far as romantic dates. do you have any suggestions???
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): Take him somewhere you like and know, where you feel comfortable, which isn't widely known, which you want to share, and show him around. Hard to suggest anywhere that fits the criteria, not knowing you or your place.As an example, my gf took me to the museum of the Classics Department of her university. We had a great time as we looked at the exhibits and she explained them to me, subtly showing off her knowledge and skill.I took her cycling to the top of a hill unreachable by car, with a view for seventy kilometres up the coast, where we watched the sun set.She took me to a garden, where we watched ducks.I took her to hut in the hills overlooking our city. We stayed overnight in the forest whilst watching civilisation. The reverse of the usual eco-hotel experience and heaps cheaper.She took me to her favourite band. She insisted we had sex in the toilets. She later told me she lost her virginity there, and that it sucked, and she wanted to do it over with me.I took her to a famous city that we had both wanted to visit but never had.We both cleaned up her garden. We were incredibly grotty and showered together, which was fun.I took her snorkelling with my friends. As we were sailing back she and the others were lying on the deck of the hired boat, we had thought to pack a few bottles of champers, and we all looked like something out of a Bond movie. The conversation was funny and sophisticated. A fine day.We painted her house. The ads make this look sexy and fun - it isn't.We made dinner. But from scratch -- including the bread and pasta, with all the vegetables and herbs coming from her garden.We went dancing with some Russian friends. Her feet hurt, so I put them on my knees and rubbed them for a long while and we just chatted. She went to the loo, complaining her hose were being wrecked by my rubbing. After a while of rubbing her feet again, it dawned on me that she was commando, she said "I was wondering when you'd notice" and smiled. It was very fine dancing with her afterwards, knowing there was nothing under the dress.We were broke because our employers' bank had stuffed up our pay. So we went to the commercial market and bought a fortnight's food for $20 each. We then alternated houses each night.At the end of the day she comes and sees me. We sit on the front steps and talk about our day. Then no work-talk comes into the house. Often she has something on and will come and chat before going on her way.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 honey,let the man date u first.
its his job to be romantic with you
and its your job to appreciate his efforts.
u can be romantic with him after 10-12 dates :)
Aka a month?
Let the man chase you. That's the epitomy of being romantic.
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