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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:so,my crush likes me back and stuff,but in the past month we haven't talked at all.he tried several times to greet me,but i acted like he wasn't there(totally ignored him,i know what a horrible thing i've done),so he avoided me and acted like i didn't exist.now,when he sees me,he stares openly at me,sometimes doesn't care if i catch him and sometimes pretnends he didn't see me when i look in his eyes.he smiles at me sometimes.this might sound weird,but i want to pretend i'm someone else online,just to talk to him.but how should i start our first converstion online?how can i make sure he won't find out who i really am?some advice,please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Wouldn't it be a better idea to admit it's you and apologise and take it from there?
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Lying is a very bad idea, if he ever finds out, he will NEVER talk to you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): iT sounds like you need to start a conversation with him online, as yourself! As it's you he likes and it's you he stares at:)Just go for it say hi it's me, *insert name*, i was wondering do you like me? and get it all out there do not try and play with him by pretending to be someone else. Be yourself and i am sure that you will go out soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Look, as a guy, nothing is more of a turn off for me than a girl that plays games, trust me a relationship is hard enough without making iot trickier. How about being a wee bit mature about it, being honest with him and seeing where it goes, would that be so horrible?
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reader, lou-lou angel +, writes (1 May 2009):
 i think that pretending to be someone else online cold make the matter worse as you could mke this person seem better than you without meaning to so i sugest you just be urself and try again you never know it could all work out for you good luck :D x x
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