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writes:i kind off made a big mistalke i was dumped 2 month ago but kep seeing my x having sex wth her and doing stuff it was like we never broke up and on the easter holidays we met on the fri and met on the sat and we were on about starting it up again but i had a go at her on the sun because she still had some pics of her old boyfriend on her phone we argud then left each other and she started talking to this arse hole who i used to no i comfrunted her and said u are flirting with him whats the deal and she blamed my paranioa so we argued a bit more i said i was sorry and left the club then l8r on tryed to call her and she just said on her phone stop it and then never exepted my calls i kept cing her for i few fridays were she would refuse to even talk to me but again kept talking to this lad i recently found out off her that she had kissed this lad the frist night she started talking to him again and she said it was cause she was drunk but if it was a mistake why did she keep talking to him why do they txt each other am just so angrey i mean i only found out they were going with each other when they just came up and started talking then just smiled and french kissed each other and i am so angry at it and i warned her what the lad is like and sure enote she sore him dancing with another lad so in her face there i guess l8r on that night i was angry and called her a slut i no this was wrong but she did go with another lad the day after we were on abot starting it up and for the recored she is a tease and a user but it wasnt like me to say things like that so i ran from the taxi back to were the club was to apoligise and when i got out side the club i sore her walking up with one off her friends and her bf then her walking with one off my m8s and i asked have u went with him and he said she had and he was pround off it i just fell to peaces and put it this way i was in the british army and i dont break easy but i did i didnt even have the control to go over and hit the lad i was just so hurt and i said u are just a tart and i havent seen her since but i am just praying for her to cum beg for me back am i stupid to hope for this if i carnt have her the i just wanna move on but it is just SO hard and is it evil that deep down insid i want to hurt her the same she has dun to me am i stupid to be praying for thing to work out and us to get back together
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (11 May 2007):
 It unfortunate that you called it off when you did. Looking at this from an outside point of view, you should of never have gone back with her without finding out where you stood and where it was going. The time you spent seeing her for sex built up your hopes that something might become, but in her eyes it was just sex. Maybe giving you the wrong impression at times and leading you on, but never commiting to you.
Does'nt that tell you what kind of person she is? Dont you deserve better then that?
You never really got back together and so she never really cheated on you in that respect. She obviously used you for her own devices, what ever they might of been and found it funny to tease you with her new fella.
Do you really want someone who finds it easy to hurt you like that and enjoy it with a smile on her face, while you get hurt?
I know if you love someone you love them, no matter what. But she has treated you without the respect you gave her and at times like these you get to see what someones true colours are like.
Yeah, you should'nt of said the things you said, but it was'nt without provokation from her.
To go and do the same as she has to you is only bringing yourself down to her level, which I would not recommend. If that is how she treats people close to her you are better off far away from her.
Take time to think, and start things afresh with someone who will treat you with the respect better than what she done.
R
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