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female
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30-35,
*illycupcake
writes:hey,i've just broke up with my guy. he is 22 and i'm 14. after we've broke up, we totally lost contact till today. i know that he's still mad at me for the reason i gave him for the break up thingy. i told him that i'm not his miss right but he disagreed with me and there was a conflict.it was terrible.. i felt that he's annoying because i'm only 14 and he knows that, but why does he have to start a conversations about getting engaged or married.i'm not ready yet to answer those.. he is 22 and i know that he is ready to settle down, but i'm not.i still have a long way to go but im still confused whether what i did was right when i asked for the break up. can somebody/anyone tell me?? im totally confused!!
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reader, Stuck!!  +, writes (26 July 2007):
If your not ready to settle down then you did the right thing and shouldnt be confused. at the end of the day you are only 14 and should be out with your friends enjoying yourself. remember your only young once and make the most of your life.
dont get me wrong settling down is fine, as long as you are ready for it. the age gap makes things harder, but you'l know when you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, so dont panic or rush into anything just b/c its what he wants to hear. your probably confused b/c ur still hurt over the way things ended but in time when you meet other boys you'll get over it.
Enjoy your life and have fun, You'l be ready to settle down with mr right when your ready so don't rush things
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): If he is 22 years old and sleeping with a 14 yr old, he is a pervert and child molestor. There are laws and morals against situations like this. You are too young to be thinking about marriage. You should be enjoying your life. I don't think you made wrong decision. He's disgusting.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 You totally did the right thing nobody needs to be tied down to one guy at 14! Besides he probably has a screw loose to even be interested in a 14 year old at 22 years of age. I'm glad you got rid of the pervert.
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