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writes:To make a long story short, I use to be inlove with masturbating and i stopped doing it 2 months ago, but i feel like if i do it just once ill get hooked but masturbation is a thing with all males 99% of all males do it and i have had these strong urges but they don't happen often but i do want to do it, but i dont wanna become hooked again what should i do? i've herd doing it is healthy for your prostate but if i do it i will feel this guilt that i always get after i ejaculate. what should i do wait more months and do it now? whats your advice to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2013): Here's how you solve your problem. Don't masturbate, and you won't feel guilty.
You've gone around in circles with everyone's advice to your post.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 August 2013):
 it's NORMAL to want to masturbate. In fact, It's NORMAL to masturbate.
If God did not want us to masturbate he would have made our arms shorter.
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reader, JustToonz +, writes (15 August 2013):
JustToonz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI feel Guilt because I havent Masturbated in 2 months but really i dont want to start this addiction over but i really want to do but what should i do?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 August 2013):
Define Chronic.... because if it's like morning (morning glory erection) and at bedtime (best relaxer there is) and it's NOT impacting on your life then i see no issues..
where is the guilt coming from?
The only time masturbation is a problem is if you decline to go to work or school or to go be social with people and instead want to stay home and masturbate. If you are not impacting negatively on your life I see no reason to stop or have guilt...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2013): I'm not sure where your guilt comes from. Maybe you felt bad about the times you thought it was a chronic habit.
Once you know you have it under control, and the guilt will subside automatically. Masturbation is not a sin and it is not something nasty.
When it is done in inappropriate places, or about something that mentally healthy people don't think about; then it is a sickness. You don't have that problem. You're a healthy young American male.
If it's done privately, in your own room, and you don't hurt yourself; it is healthy normal sexual behavior. It is meant to relieve sexual tension and aids in abstinence. It reduces sexual frustration. It's okay.
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reader, JustToonz +, writes (14 August 2013):
JustToonz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for giving the feedback but i dont want to become a chronic masturbater again but i do want to do it again but hate feeling the guilt. what should i do about the guilt?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (13 August 2013):
 Stop listening to whoever told you that you should be "guilty" about masturbating..... and get on with it....
AND, don't worry about hair growing on the palms of your hands, OR that you'll go blind... or mad.
Good luck... and enjoy yourself....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2013): You shouldn't feel bad for doing something that is natural.
Just don't get hooked on internet porn.
Try to use your own imagination when you can. If you feel soreness or irritation; that's a sign you may be doing it too often.
Masturbate as often as you like; as long as it's not all you can think of doing when you're alone.
Keep guilt out of sex. Just use good judgement and practice safe-sex if you include a partner.
You'll be fine.
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