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*raceyhoney95
writes:me and my partner have been together for two years the problem is that i want to make love with my partner as frequently as possible where as he doesn't and it really upsets me when i ask him whats wrong he says nothing. what am i doing wrong as i'm scared this will ruin our relaionship? Reply to this Question
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reader, traceyhoney95 +, writes (25 June 2008):
traceyhoney95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe both work full time, so working and being tired isn't an issue , when i say frequently at least once a day hopefully, he ain't out of shape i'm just beginning to thinks its me!!!! help lol !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): "Tell him you want to go (remote) camping for a week. While you are tromping through the woods, make sure he at no time can go wack off in the bushes and see if his sex drive comes back in a few days. If this is the case, tell him to stop being so selfish and quit wacking off...if he doesn't leave this pathetic masterbatin junkie and find yourself a real man."
Wow, what intellectual insight. What orifice did you pull this out of?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): Tell him you want to go (remote) camping for a week. While you are tromping through the woods, make sure he at no time can go wack off in the bushes and see if his sex drive comes back in a few days. If this is the case, tell him to stop being so selfish and quit wacking off...if he doesn't leave this pathetic masterbatin junkie and find yourself a real man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): Over the hill at 30 to 35???????????? ROFLMAO
LazyGuy, if you can't have sex more than once or twice a day at your young age, then you need to have your hormones checked or see if there is a medical problem. That's assuming that you have the desire to however.
traceyhoney95, what do you mean by "as frequently as possible"? Daily, more than daily, 4 times a day? When prople work then there isn't always energy left for sex, along with all of the family duties. Some jobs are stressful and drain energy. Just how different are your sex drives? I have seen posts on other boards where the difference is twice a month vs. 3 or 4 times a week. I have also seen posts where the difference is once a day vs. 4 or 5 times a day. The first example is a problem. The second example needs to have a more reasonable desire by the one who wants it 5 times a day. When my wife and I were living together in out late 30s, I would have liked it 3 times a day, while she was happy with once and occasionally twice a day. I gave in to her wishes, but she would allow me sex 3 times a day one day on the weekend sometimes. We came to a compromise that we were both happy with. Of course, we were not too far apart in our sexual desires.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Hahaha! Lazy guy!!! Over the hill!!! At 30- 35? Oh nooo!!! You've made me panic slightly! :P :D
"slim999", that was truely horrible.
Do you and your partner work the same ammount? Have you always had different sex drives? Could he be tired? Maybe you could look for alternative ways to please yourself when he is not up for it.
Good Luck. x
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reader, slim999  +, writes (24 June 2008):
Tell him yer his sister and he will screw yer brains out.
It worked fer Joe Dirt!
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reader, traceyhoney95 +, writes (24 June 2008):
traceyhoney95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy partner is the same age as me, and well when its great its great but the problem is i love him dearly, but its putting a definate strain on things!!!!!!!!!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Depends, you two might simply have different sex drives.
He might also have troubles getting it up often enough, lets face it, he is over the hill and if he is out of shape as well...
The mismatched sexual peeks in men and women are definite proof god exists and that he likes a laugh.
You are at your peak he is over it. Get a 18 yr old boy next time.
Try and figure out WHY he doesn't want sex as often. Could be tired, out of shape, to old etc etc? Then work from there.
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