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anonymous
writes:i met a guy when he was 16 and i was 17. we went out. we broke up and 2yrs later we saw each other at a party. iwent to uni. and it got very messy... skip 3 yrs a long term boyf and a bit of hazardas spendin and i am bak. we see each other in a party, and the chap makes a beeline for me. chat. laugh etc. and now. i dunno. this is the thing. all the stuff and feelin's i kept 'hidden' are surfacing. really i would love to kiss his face. BUT. is this a good idea? should i email him. i dont know if i could deal with the emotional crap again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): i dont really know why it got messy. it just did. maybe we where too young to deal with what we felt.
anyway.
thanks for your advise. i think it is probably better to leave it. going backwards is not really a good idea.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Its a bit hard to comment on this without knowing a little more, why did it get messy? what were the issues? In general I would say that you are in the best position to judge, only get in contact if you think you can either resolve the issues that arose or they dont matter anymore. Obviously for some reason you dont have closure on this relationship and maybe now is the time to either get it or salvage it.
However, if you feel that the issues cant be resolved, or that you cant handle the emotions and dealing with the issues then it may well be better to steer clear. Don't set yourself up for a fall. Good luck :)
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