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writes: hi i am 15 and i have this really nice boy friend and i love him very much but i dont know if he loves me so how would i know if he loves me? we get on really well but i just dont know if he loves me ? so if any one can help me i would be happy Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): To tell you the truth I have the same problem. But, i am a little younger than you...I am 14 and its weird because i think i really love my boyfriend! He is amazing. He tells me he loves me but, sometimes i just can't help wonder if its true. And last night he said the "L" word again and i told him that i didnt really know if i believed that cause we are so young and stuff. And he explained how he felt about me and what he likes about me and everthing and now i know that i love him. So, you can ask him without putting too much pressure on him or you can just let the words roll out of his mouth. Maybe even if the words are "iloveyou" they could be I miss you...and even that shows that he loves you or cares about you a little bit! I hope i helped!
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reader, Smiler +, writes (18 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie15 is such a tender age and its hard to discover love and all its meanings let alone whether he loves you or not... how do you feel about him? and how does he make you feel inside? does he sweep you off your feet make you laugh, smile and feel fantastic about yourself cause thats how true love makes you feel and thats when you can actually know that he loves you... you obviously care deeply for him but honestly sweetie love has so many roads to travel down and so many directions to take its hard to say, but only you know truely if he rocks your world or just trembles it a little, have fun see where things goyour young and have all the time in the world to gain experience so have lots of fun honey :o)I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation sweetie and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime okYou Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (18 June 2006):
 Hi,
Well in your post, you havent given us lot much to go on. You are 15 - so Chances are, you won't know what love is anyway. You'll get excited about a relationship and think "OMG! It's true love!" I did, we all probably have and will.
If he plucked up the courage to ask you out, or he liked you enough to say yes if you asked him then doesn't that show how much he likes you? If you're meant to find love at this age, you'll be married by the time you're 21. Enjoy his company but don't force the big "L Word" out of him just yet. I think deep down you know he likes you a lot, isn't that enough for now? When he is ready to tell you he loves you, he'll let you know. And trust me, you'll remember it for the rest of your life!
Hope this helped,
Phoebe
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2006): depending on how long (more than a few months) you're together, just tell him honestly! don't put him under pressure by asking if he feels the same. just let him answer himself
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