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writes:What do you talk about to build some tension before kissing a girl you just started dating?I have gone out with this girl like 5 times, but I find myself thinking that the date was not so romantic as to build up a scene to kiss her. I'm not very good at compliments, they don't come natural to me, and I am not good at flirting at all. I'm clueless here so I was wondering if anyone had some tips.Basically I want to build up the correct atmosphere to go in and kiss this girl. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): take her out for a nice romantic meal ask how she is how her day has been take notice of her then as you are somewhere alone tell her how beautiful she looks lean in and kiss her works everytime women love anything like that hope it helps
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (24 June 2011):
 Sorry I don't recognize your flag, So I don't have a clue what is culturally accepted where you live. Here not kissing by the 5th date would have her wondering if something was wrong. Whatever the case is Where you live you are old enough to know when is the right time.
So how to set the mood for a kiss. The theory is that physical intimacy follows naturally after emotional intimacy. So the best things to talk about are your feelings, your hopes, your dreams(plans). You need to open your self up to her. It is a risk. Kissing is also a risk. so you take a risk with her and hope that she will be willing to take a risk with you.
This is a much better way to build a relationship than empty flirting, and shallow complements. If you want to complement her, make it sincere and timely, and detailed. Then she will know that you really have been paying attention to her. A good idea is to tell her why it is that you like to date her.
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