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I want to initiate contact!

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Question - (9 December 2014) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2014)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I go running at the park nearby. There is a guy who has shown interest in me multiple times. I am also somewhat attracted to him. I have never spoken to him but he must be married and in his late 30's or early 40's. I am also married and I will turn 30.

recently he tried talking to me couple of times but somehow i couldnt gather the courage to talk to him so he got offended and now doesnt even look at me.

But i do feel like talking to him. Should i or should I not talk to him? Also if i should, then how?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2014):

You think it will be fun and full of intrigue. But in the end it will be what every other affair is. Sweaty bodies, lousy sex, and getting ran through a wringer in divorce court.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (9 December 2014):

Sure, if you want to throw away your own marriage and ruin his, too.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 December 2014):

Honeypie agony auntYou are married, and think he is married and you THINK it would be a GRAND idea to get some kind of interactions? For what purpose? If you are attracted to him, my guess is you are hoping for a fling? Or for some dude to give you attention?

It's so wrong on several levels.

Maybe go home and ask your husband for advice?

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A male reader, SensitiveBloke United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2014):

SensitiveBloke agony auntHe's married. You're married. End of.

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A male reader, lifesgreat United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2014):

with you both being married no you shouldn't .

why would you want to. If you fancy someone and you are married there is no point ... right ..

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (9 December 2014):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhat? Are you actively looking for trouble?

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