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writes:I have been with my boy friend for almost 2 years, we both never had sex and when we do all the other stuff he just doesn't turn me on anymore and the only thing that can help me get turned on is think about doing it with other guys. Is that normal? and Y do i always wanna do it with someone more experienced than him? Reply to this Question
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reader, blackroses2989 +, writes (7 November 2008):
 Hi honey! Yes its very normal to want to try sex with someone with more experience. The reason is because you are curious about what sex is like with other people. Now for only being nineteen, Ive been around the block with my boyfriends a few times. I can honestly tell you you probably have something great and dont know it! But what may just solve your problem, is find out what you like by masturbation or playing with your body or just by already knowing what you like. Suggest to your b/f that you both try something different. Don't do the same four positions all the time, add a little spice to it,show him how you like it. Let him tell you how e likes it. Hopefully that will help both of you be better in bed (not like youre not already lol) and it will keep your curiousity at bey for now. It would be a shame to dump someone because of sex, however if you are still truely curious explain it to your boyfriend, maybe it will be something you are both interested in and can keep an "open relationship" until you make those decisions, just sit and think on them. For now try to kick your sex a notch. Good luck honey!!! 3 ^_~
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