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writes: Hi,Am feeling very sad. I got together with a guy had known from my group of friends in May. Suddenly just realised we really liked each other. Got together and it really has been the most amazing relationship I have ever had and he said too it has been a great relationship. In 6 mths we never had and arguments and we are both the type to argue but we just really clicked.However there is a catch: He has gone trvaelling for 1 year around the world. He planned it all before we even met or started going out and we tried not to get involved but we could not help ourselves. I am in uk and my life is here and I have not saved up enough to go for that long, also it was something he wanted to do alone. Altho he is up for meeting for a holiday enroute.I think he could be the one for me. I have been a bit of a player in past and every boyfriend I have had I have not wanted to be true to but with him I was. I loved him but thought there was no point in telling him as he was going. We have said we shall see what happens when we next meet. He left in October and I was gonna go and see him in december but now feel its too soon and should wait longer - until march. We are not an item while he is away cause feel its not fair on one another but we are remaining in touch.I really hope he doesn't meet anyone special - I know it;s a year and a lot can happen but I don't think I will ever meet anyone like him again. I am 26, he is 25.Also I have sent him an email which he has not replied to so think he may already be forgetting about me. I dunno its really hard and I really miss him. We stayed together right up until the day he left.Thanks for any advice.xxx
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 November 2008):
Ok, I am the queen of the long distance as I am an army wife. It's coming up to 6 months since my husband left for Iraq.
You say you have sent him an email and he has not replied.
Do you have any idea how easy or hard it is to find reliable internet access where he is? I'm guessing it is hard / expensive.
Long distance can make or break a couple. You have decided not to wait for each other so you have to just go on with life.
Find a new hobby, get a second job, do something to fill the time then you just have to leave it up to fate.
Good Luck!! xx
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