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writes:I'm planning to have sex with my girlfriend of six months for the first time (and its my first time with anyone). What I want to know is when having sex, does the entire female body become "sensitive" when you touch any part of her body or are there certain areas more sensitive than others? If so what are they. The reason I ask is that I want my girlfriend to enjoy having sex with me as much as I will hopefully. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): Well there are some sensative places to tuch like the clit of her vagina and when you but ur tonuge in her girls tend to anjoy that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): PS, as crude as it sounds, as you are a virgin, I advice having a wank a couple of hours before having sex with her, otherwise you are quite likely to orgasm in her within seconds or minutes, and that will truely be most embarrassing. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): Aww that's very sweet that you are interested in satisfying your girlfriend :)
There are plenty of guides on the Internet that you can find, but I would say the most important thing is to be able to talk whilst you are being intimate. Tell her to tell you when she does, or doesn't like something. It doesn't take long at all to build up knowledge of her body, so everytime you are together it'll get better and better!
Don't forget that she must also tell you what is good and what is bad :)
PS believe me, just by taking an interest in your girlfriends body like this you are already automatically better than 90% of other men in bed (from my experiences of talking to women) so feel nice and confident when you are being intimate with her! ;)
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
 dear reader every woman has a different feeling during sex but most of all make sure you know what she wants so i avice you to talk to her first ask her what she likes and tell her its your first time so if you get a little stuck you won't feel so embarrased when she gives a little help. make sex fun it should seem like a chore to anyone so remember most of all to relax and enjoy the ride (as they say lol)
i hope your special night sets for some magic for both of you.
and if it's not too much for you let us know how it all goes
all the best to you xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): I had sex with a guy that was a virgin, and it was rather awkward. The guy I had sex with had a very funny way of having sex (i think he may have been nervous) he would move funny (not like the other guys i've been with) its understandable though considering that it was his first time. He didnt know though, that I knew he was a virgin. Some friend of his told me. Does your girlfriend know that this is your first time? If she doesnt, you want to seem confident and act like you know what you are doing and not move in a funny way. Im not trying to discourage you, Im just telling you this or trying to help you, so that you wont look weird having sex. I know that it may not sound so important to anyone here, but it may be something you need to know since this is your first time and if you dont want her to know. Nothing is wrong with being a virgin and if she loves you and you trust her, I dont see why you shouldnt just let her know. She may just turned on and might want to take over you, if you know what I mean [smiling]. As for touching her a certain way, from me, I like to be on bottom and for the person im having sex with, well, i like for him to touch my breast and rub all over my body, touch and caress me, Oh! and most importantly, i like it when he kisses and licks me all over my chest and neck! I like for him to start off slow and then I like for him to get ruff and for him to have his way with me. But every girl is different, you should talk to her and see what she likes. I hope this helps. Good luck!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (13 June 2006):
 Hi there, so glad you have thought this through and want to the right thing for her as well as you. So glad that you want to make this as special as possible, shows how kind and considerate you are! The link below should be able to help you on a couple of things.
http://www.avert.org/sfeel2.htm
Take care and Im sure you will be fine!
x x
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (13 June 2006):
 Different girls enjoy different things.The best bet is to just ask her what she enjoys and what she doesn't enjoy. Be as open as you can with her and enjoy discovering new things about her.The key to any relationship is honesty, so ask her about anything you are not sure about.She may even show you what she likes or guide you.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (13 June 2006):
 There are plenty of guides to sex on the internet that you can look at for tips on how to do it. I just wanted to say that women are tactile creatures who like cuddles and being stroked all over, not just those bits! Sex also varies between individuals so you should ask her what she likes, and doesn't like personally - she will appreciate your willingness to please, and you will have some fun together trying to work it all out. If you want your GF to enjoy the sex, ask her how she would enjoy sex...it is a good starting point!
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