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I want to have afair with my boss.

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Question - (28 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2010)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This might sound silly, but I want to have afair with my boss. I'm 20, he's 23 and as a student i work in his family bar. It's not that i like him because of his power, because we communicate on very friendly way. He's single, he has good body and he doesn't seem to be my soul mate, the one or perfect match for me at all. However i think he's kinda intellectual and i like men with brains. I want him on not-very-serious way, i want him in my bed, maybe i'd like to know more about his personal life. This is probably because i haven't had sex for about 6 months (i'm very picky). Now i want to have lover (it's too hard to find boyfriend in these circumstances) and i want to have some fun after a long time. I have a feeling he'd be a good choice. Maybe we could fell in love too..

We often have jokes about sex because people at the bar (99% older male population) are talking about it or trying to seduce me on funny ways. Nothing serious at all. But i think he likes me, because he remember everything i say, he asked me if i have a boyfriend and where i go out at the weekends, he came to my party he was invited to, he often says to the guests: we have very pretty girl here, aren't we? Once he said that he likes me everyday more and more.

The problem is that i have no idea how to start this. He also mentioned that he doesn't have time for girls (probably because they're renovating bar and have a lot of work with it).

I have no similar experiences, can you please give me advice on how to start afair with him and make my fantasies become real? :)

Thanks for answers and sorry because of my english (it's my second language)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010):

How often do you have sex ? Are your partners old same as you or older ? The best solution will be to get drunk with him and then touch him and you will see what will happen...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010):

Well you are not in a committed relationship now so you cannot have an affair.

If you want to ensnare him in your web use your attractor.

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A male reader, DeadEyeDick United States +, writes (28 March 2010):

DeadEyeDick agony auntI wouldnt, what if you bang him, and then he starts being a dick to you, and treating you different at work, I mean there is half a chance that could happen, that he just wants to bang you, Id probably just stop the flirting, because if you keep flirting, it's going to draw so much sexual tension it will eventually happen if you want it to or not, I know it's hard, but Id probably keep conversation with him to a minimal, keep it to 3 words!

A. Hello

B. How Are You?(optional)

C. Goodbye

you get infatuated with people you work with so easy, because you are around them so much, that human nature jumps in and you find a way to make going to work enjoyable, and it kind of gives you a side feeling that there is a good reason to go to work, cause you get excited that you get to flirt with that person,thats what I think!

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