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writes:Is 40+ too old to have your first child??I am in love with a man who I recently got together with and we both would love to have a child but he suddenly got sent to prison and won't be out until I am in my forties!!I am so sad as I love him and would love to give him this gift but I have never had a child before and worry that it may be too late when he is released!By the way, he is younger than me and I don't think he knows I am as old as I am! Reply to this Question
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (27 April 2009):
 Having a baby at 40+ is possible but there is more of a chance of the child being deformed or disabled. It will also be harder to conceive than a woman in her 20's or 30's.
Having a baby is a big commitment from both the mother and father and having a baby without being in a close relationship is not advised as this will effect the childs upbringing. As this man doesn't know your real age tells that you arn't in a close relationship.
Good luck
Livia
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reader, Rachel :-) +, writes (27 April 2009):
If he doesn't know your real age, perhaps you 2 shouldnt be thinking about children.However, you will have lots of time to make a decision if he is in prison.
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