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writes:I'm 13, and my boyfriend is really in to me,and we want 2 have sex the day before my birthday, and i want to.I want to get tested before i have sex (i'v never had sex,it's just to make sure).I'm 13! my mom would never get me tested at this age, but i dont act my age, i'm much mo mature.H'es 16, and i want to, but i just don't know what to do, because i can't come to my mom with this. Reply to this Question
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reader, DIE-romantic.  +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Well, first things first, your under age, your boyfriend could be arrested for this and you wouldnt be tested for that at your age anyway, because i agree with what Dr Pete said, it would be a waste of time. But if you are going to do this make sure you do it with proper precautions, such as protection.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Hey, I don't really know what you're asking people on here but to me it sounds a bit odd that someone who has never had sex would want to get tested for sexual transmitted infections? Isn't that a waste of time?
You say you can't go to your mum about this, but you also say you are "much more" mature than a 13-yr old. If you were mature, you'd probably know that your mum is probably a good person to speak to as she has probably been in a very similar situation to you. I think though you know that she'll tell you that you are way too young to have sex, and I think you know, deep down, that she is right.
You should bookmark this webpage and read your question in a few years time, you'll probably find it very interesting.
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reader, Rasheedi  +, writes (22 July 2007):
I fully share with the views expressed above by 88Jane and would like to suggest to act upon her advice exclusively.
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reader, 88jane +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Ok first things first, you are too young to have sex--it is against the law for your boyfriend to have sex with you!!! Your 13, your a child why do you want to have sex-its such an adult thing to do, enjoy being a child while you can, theres plenty of time to have sex when your older!Secondly, if your 13 and have never had any sexual experiences then you wont have any sexually transmitted diseases so you dont need to be tested!It is illegal for you to be having sex at your age but i understand that if you want to do it then nobody can make you stop so please just make sure you are ready and that you use protection! This will prevent from pregnancy as well as disease!xxx
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