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writes:It's been a year since we broke up, me and my ex dated for 2 years. After a week i heard he was flirting with my enemy then after 2 weeks he had a new girlfriend. After the girl next to me, he was playing with girls but he would always tell me he has feelings for me. A week ago, I told him that I wasn't over him. All he said was thanks! I was like thanks for what? He said .. for loving me even if i don't love you back. Now he's currently courting this girl who is 5 years younger than her! i'm only 15 i know it's not really the mature relationship yet, but the girl he's courting is just 11!!! at first i was laughing but then i'm still hurt. He brags to everyone that i'm not over him. He acts that he's so cool, that he's like the hottest boy in town. But i still look at him like before. How will i show him that he is not worth it? That i can actually get over him and just simply smile because he's happy now... it's killing me....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): I remember going through this when i was your age. the best thing you can do is just move on. trust me. he seems like a big deal right now, but if you just put your mind on other things and stop obsessing, in about 6 months, he wont seem like much. you're still pretty young right now, so what may seem like love right now probably isnt, but then again who knows. but looking at it from the point of view that its probably just infatuation, if you just make up your mind that you never want to let him hurt you like that, an realize that he doesn't feel anything toward you, it'll be easier to move on. stop romanticizing him. the fact that you're not over him may just be that you're jealous that other girls have his attention. would u still feel the same if no one else liked him, or if he didnt like anyone else?
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reader, dube  +, writes (25 March 2011):
I know how u feel.i was with my kids dad for over 11 years and he tells me a few weeks ago. He doesnt want me all he wants is hes kids. That he likes the life his living now
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reader, Yetilicious  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 Wow, what an asshole!! This guy is such a douchebag, he obviously never cared about you in the first place if he actually told you "thanks for loving me even though I don't love you", especially if he's braggina about it to his friends. Never talk to that guy again. Send him a text or email saying "Thanks for helping me get over you. Goodbye." And Never reply to ANYTHING he sends under any circumstance. Find a nice, funny guy, preferably a couple years older, and go out with him. Once you have someone who TRULY likes you as much as you like him it will be easy for you to get over this asshole. It's possible that this guy will come crawling back after you have someone else in your life. Don't play into his game and take him back. Tell him you're happier now than you have ever been, and that you hope he is happy...but the feelings you USED to have for him died.
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