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writes:First, I'd like to apologize for the length of the question. Well, My boyfriend is coming over tomorrow. I love him with all my heart and he's really amazing and we've been together almost a year but lately I've noticed that we haven't really been spending a lot of time together just me and him. Last time we were together, we went to an amusement park and his older sister was with us the whole time so we really didn't spend time together with just us. This has just been the past 1-2 weeks. Usually when he comes over, we cuddle up and watch movies, make out, take walks, go back in the woods and sit by the pond and things like that. He always asks me to have sex but he respects if I don't want to. I'm not a virgin, I lost my virginity to him in March but for the past month or so, I haven't been "In the mood" to really have sex. I'm on birth control, have been since April, and I Know a side effect on the pills can make a girl not really want to do anything. I do feel like I really want to have sex, or try something new tomorrow when he comes over. I'm young so I live with my parents and when he's over my bedroom door stays open and I get paranoid that someones going to catch us. We've done things back in the woods and everything and I'm comfortable having sex, or messing around anywhere(If nobody is around). So, what I'm asking is, What can I do to get him turned on and what are some new things that we can possibly try if possible, outside of my bedroom/house so nobody walks in on us? Any advice is helpful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): wear something he likes eg corset,suspenders,heels/boots, handcuff him to the bed, strip for him dont let him touch you then have sex with him on top of him but dont let him touch you.tell him to tell you when hes about to come and when he tells you this stop so he doesnt come and then maybe let him go to let him go nuts on you.
hope you have fun
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