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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I would like to get my ex who is a playboy back. He is currently flirting with me after for so long we havent met. How do i play the game of playing hard and not giving him what him want to make him want me more? When he wants to kiss me, what should i do? We dont live in the same place but i often go to his city during the weekend to visit my family. If i want to see him, i will have to text him and ask him out for coffee. Is there a way to make him ask instead? Given that we have no middle people who might lay the roll as information spreader.Note: no sexual issue here. Please help me to give him a lifelong lesson.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): Refer to this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-hurt-me-and-i-want-to-get.html
Read it all starting from the bottom to the top. Please don't be so arrogant as think you're not in the same situation as this girl or that you're somehow stronger and better than her. If you really were then you wouldn't even need to ask this question.
She made the right choice in the end OP, because nothing hurts a player about anything you propose because it will just show he still has a hold on you and he will enjoy that.
Players like to play, the only way to hurt them is not to play.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for answering my question.
I am not too sure if he really flirts with me this time but I only noticed him wanting to kiss me on that day, I guess probably because I was very much dressed up as I attended a partly before hand and I looked nicer. Most of other time when we accidentally met up, he just asked how I was and told me that he changed and havent had a girl friend for 2 yrs.
The thing about asking him out for coffee is his suggestion to me to call him for coffee when i go to the place.
What is his sign?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): You can only hurt somebody if they actually care, if he really DID want to see you his flirting would have stopped and he would have asked to meet you.Hes playing.
By giving him attention and time you are making him important. Let it go, move onwards with your life, you've survived without him so far.
Being happy and ignoring him definately gives you the upperhand anyway.
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (3 January 2012):
The best revenge is to ignore him and liberate yourself. Dont waste a second more of your energy on him.
The best revenge is a life well lived WITHOUT him.
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