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writes: I don't know ,if I know my own feelings, but I got a big problem. I'm married , we have children, and a good life, but , i can't forget my first love , 20 years ago , I'm obsessed with this, and I tried everything but it hunts me.I live a double life, sometimes I fantasize about him and me together,and making plans to find him.I know he is married, and maybe he love his wife. I don't know if he thinks about me, but I just get get him out of my mind. Is there any explanation why is that? I want to forget him, but i think he is the love of my life . What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, helpjayne  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 it's probably not love it might just be you thinking he's this great guy and you and him would be so happy together but people change, maybe this is because your bored so you find yourself thinking back to the only other person that you've loved in your life and you think how great it was but you and your first love are different people now you have different lives. you shouldn't obsess over him, i get the feeling that your not 100% happy with your marriage but don't go looking in the past to be happy look to the future if you don't feel 100% happy in your marriage talk to your husband he must have done something to make you forget about your first love all this time get what you had back with romantic meals and holidays. or if your bored these things go around your head all day maybe that's not helping busy yourself.
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i hope i helped
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