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writes:dear, whoever wishes to help meim a 18 year old guy and i have been speaking to a 22 year old guy for 3 weeks now, we get on really well.we arranged to meet up yesterday and we did, he was really great a bit shy but great. we watched tele at his for a while the general night in sorta thing.we both got high... around 2 oclock i was really tired, so he offered me his bed to sleep in, he then climbed in too i didnt mind but was pretty scarce as i didnt want anything to happen.anyway as we layed their after about half a hour i thought it over in my head that i wanted to kiss him. i leant over and kissed him, to the pure joy of him kissing back. we played about for abit and then fell asleep holding each other.about 9-10ish i woke up hugging him i knew he was awake well im about 90% sure he was because he was encouraging me to hug him by moving closer.when we both got up the atmosphere suddenly because really intense and we both felt really awkward and didnt know what to say to each other.anyway he dropped me off at the bus stop where he picked me up and we went our separate ways i didnt know what to do when i left his car but something made me want to kiss him bye but i also wanted to go and not make it any worse, so i just went and said goodbye. what else could i actually have done?we talked on msn later on and i asked him if he regreted anything? he replied sort off, it was a bit weird. i replied that i thought so too which i did as i didnt really expect to do that.but we have both came to a conclusion of forgetting that it happened. it isnt a problem forgetting but it will always be their. anyway i want to know, do you think i still have a chance with him? or have i messed up big time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): I "bet the ranch" that he'll be calling or texting, or emailing you to set up another meeting...and if I'm wrong, beside me losing the ranch, (lol just kidding) why don't you initiate another meeting...he'll accept, I'm sure. And as it goes on you both will feel less uncomfortable. And before you know it, it'll be a relationship!
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (14 November 2008):
 You do have a chance with him he's probably thinking he's messed things up to so come clean tell him that you had a good time but maybe if he wanted to see you again you could slow it down a bit, i think nights in always lead to this kinda thing so next time whynot see a movie or go out to eat, just talk about a film you really wana go c and ask him if he wants to go see it. dont worry too much about this, you probably felt really awkward with eachother because it's moved that fast in a short space of time carry on being friends on msn and if u wana kiss him kiss him next time!x
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