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*ndy00
writes:Hi, I'm feeling a little confused and it's stressing me out.Over the course of the summer, I dated a girl who lived locally to me. The relationship was a little turbulent. There were a number of things we disagreed on, but we persisted, knowing that the relationship could only last until the time we went back to university.Anyway, the time came, and we were both very upset. She considered cutting contact, and I considered the same, but it felt just to hard to say goodbye forever, since we had become so attatched to eachother over the past few months.We said goodbye on monday. On Tuesday night, I found myself feeling alone and cold in my new house, reminiscing about old times with her, and became very upset. I was visibly distraught! Then the very next night in a club, I was shown some interest by a girl, and I've ended up going out with her for the past couple of days.I think my head is struggling to deal with such a sudden change. I still think of my summer girlfriend, and look back on the happy times we had. But she's gone now and I know I have to move on. The girl I met recently is a lot of fun to be around, and very affectionate, which is something I love my partner to be. I just worry it might be too soon.I want to feel comfortable with this sudden change in partner. How can I stop stressing out over it?
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