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writes:okay, i know im young and i have tons of time to find someone, but i really want to date someone. all my friends have a boyfriend, even though they don't treat them right. they all have nice guys that they treat like dirt. i haven't dated a guy in a long time, which is my fault because im waiting for the right one but i feel so alone. i don't want to settle for anyone, but i don't want to be alone... thanks for taking time out of your day to help, everyone on dear cupid should feel good about themselves for being such good people :) Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 There will be some waiting with this but go and put yourself out there. Meet new boys and if you find one that you like don't be afraid to ask him out instead of waiting around for him. If you pick them then there is a less likely chance of going on a date with someone you'll hate. You'll find the right guy in good time.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Hmm... i read your question and i think you actually answered you're own question when you asked it.
You're absolutely right you're young and have tons of time to find someone.
But... you don't want to settle for anyone yet don't want to be alone. So then do that. Find a guy with no intentions of settling with him (make sure he's clear of this) but you could really use the company.
If it ever gets to be too much for your liking you could break it off and start fresh with another guy.
Basically, use your judgement. Do what feels right for you. If you ever get uncomfortable then either work it out or send the guy packing.
nick
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