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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok so I've asked several questions about my ex girlfriend, she was my girlfriend when I asked the questions. She broke up with me after almost 7 months and I think I'm almost over her. Anyhow this question is not about her, It's about her sister, I think I'm falling for her, I know her sister well, and we talk alot at school. We've dated before but things just didn't work out, I never told her I loved her or put my arm around her or kissed her or anything like that. But since then (2 years ago)I've changed alot, I respect women now and I understand a little more about love and I actually do stuff that I didn't then. I want to ask her to go to the movies with me. I'm just worried that because her sister and I just broke up she will say no. I'm also worried about what her mom would think because when I was dating her sister I went over her house almost every saturday and I know her mom very well and we seem to be sort of friends and I just don't want her mom to think that I'm a player because that is not who I am at allThanks for your advice in advance.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 If the relationship with your ex (as in her sister) was serious then you should not pursue this any further. You will cause terrible tension in the family, going round to her house will be unbearable (if they even let you in!) and in general things will be messy!
There are plenty of girls out there - find one that is not friends with your ex or related to your ex! You must of heard the rule that friends should never date a friend's ex - well it is the exact same for family! If she was any kind of sister she would never date her sister's ex boyfriend anyway!
Leave the girl alone and move on, there are plenty more fish in the sea!
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