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I Want to Choose, But Need Some Help??

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Question - (28 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Loving two people

Having them love you back

Isn't it what everyone wants?

I hate it

Being torn between them

Being forced to choose

Feeling regret

Feeling ashamed

But in the end..

One of them is always there for me

When one can't be there

The other one is with me

Smiling at me

Cheering me up

Encouraging me

Telling me goodnight softly

Calming me when I'm scared

Loving me that's what he's doing...

But the other one...

Arguing abit more

Feeling more confusion than before

Stressing everything over silly things

Telling me to be strong

Breaking me slowly

Making me jealous

Making me cry

But in the end

I love them both

I can't let them go

Especially the one that smiles the most at me

Because I made a promise with him

He has my soul and half of my heart

The other one only has half my heart

And has no promise

But in the end

I smile to myself when I'm alone

Because I really do love them both...

I can't let them go....

the one i fight with is my current boyfriend

what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010):

You really need to evaluate your relationship. Do you want to be with a boy you aren't happy with? Why does he only have your heart, and not your soul? I'd say go with the other guy because he sounds like the kind that will treat you right.

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A female reader, kitty-cat=] United States +, writes (28 June 2010):

kitty-cat=] agony aunti have a friend with this problem. exactly this problem, she has a boyfriend who is upset all the time over stupid things, he ignores her around his friends, he has a lot of friends that are girls that like him, he has cheated on her before, but she loves him. the other guy she is secretly seeing and hes nice and all but he is a man whore. she doesn't know i know about him though. shes my best friend and she deserves better than both of them. if your not happy with your boyfriend and he makes you cry, don't date him. why spend some of the best years of your life upset over a relationship that won't make the distance. be with whoever treats you better. you deserve it. hope this helped :)

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