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writes:My boyfriend is 26 and I'm 27 and we've been together for about a year.He's clear on the issue of kids, he doesn't want any, or at least not in the near future. I don't want kids now either but I don't know how I'll feel when I get to my 30s.Yesterday we were out and the people sitting next to us had a few kids. I made a comment that I couldn't handle a kid, and he then said 'I bet you that one day you will want one.' I then asked him what would happen if in the futue I do want children. I asked if that would be something that would end our relationship. He said 'no way, not at all'What's that supposed to mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): it means that he is allowing the possibility that you may change your mind someday. and if you do i think he will be flexible. you need to both be clear on this though and not go off of what i think he meant.:) but to me by saying it wouldnt be a deal breaker he is thinking ahead, of all of the "what ifs." He sounds like a keeper to me. :) mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): it sounds like exactly what he said "no way not at all"
talk to him directly dont beat around the bush, ask him if u were to have kids what would happend with the relationship
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