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age
30-35,
*francy
writes:hello dear cupid friends francy is back on track again............ lol... well i have a problem with my current boyfriend , we have been dating for a year and two months now...... the thing is ,he once cheated on me with a girl in the same town as the both of us............. i kept quiet because i did not want troubles with him............ but when he heard i cheated on him, he asked me about it......... and made me accept i did a mistake.......... am now planning to get my ways out because i feel very over ruled................ he also dated one of my at school and he said bad things about her..... am scared he might also say bad about me if i broke up with him....... what should i do please help............... am about to bust now...........
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (27 February 2009):
 Hold your head high, and if he starts saying bad things about you, simply say scornfully "Oh, he doesn't take rejection very well. I'm afraid his poor little feelings are hurt, so he's saying silly things to make himself feel better." Then laugh, and say, "Let's talk about other more important things than sad little boys."
Just keep your poise, keep your calm, do not let him get to you. His comments are so much fluff on the wind. You are above them; he is beneath you. Keep on remembering that. If you behave as though you fully believe that, other people will too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): After you break up with him, if he says bad things about you, confront him about the things he says and tell him to prove what he says. Be sure and do this in front of some of the people he talks to. This should shut his mouth.
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