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writes:hello, i'm 18 years old and i'm abit confused.because i met up with a friend today who's a year younger than me so that makes him 17.and we've known each other way over a year now.well we met up and went to the cinema, but he started kissing me and putting his arms around me and touching my legs and stuff, he was holding my hand too, i let him do it obviously because i really, really like him and he knows it.but i don't know whether he likes me or not.when he left me to go home, he kissed me then too.so i kind of got the impression he likes me, but i'm not sure.I want to be with him as boyfriend and girlfriend but I'm too embarrassed and scared to even mention anything like that to him.the whole time i was with him, i couldn't stop smiling, everything he said to me or everything he did, made me smile and i had a really warm feeling inside which i've never felt for any other boy before.i'm scared that it might put him off me or something.does anyone know what i could do?thank you! :)
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (10 May 2007):
Oh, second thing...
Be absolutely firm and don't let his needs dominate your own.
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reader, sleepyhollow +, writes (10 May 2007):
Two things. You know how they say that you should always put a brake on the intimate stuff? Kissing is okay, but keep him at first base for a few weeks at least. At least respect yourself enough to not let him move things too far too fast. If he really likes you, he'll stick around. If not, he'll find someone else to disrespect and use.
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reader, penta  +, writes (10 May 2007):
 Call him up and tell him you enjoyed the cinema the other day, and would he like to do it again? Then just be yourself.
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl +, writes (10 May 2007):
 dotn be scared to tell him how you really feel and then dotn be afriad to ask him if he feels the same its very common for a girl to be scared to ask a guy how they feel but if you dont ever ask him then you will never know how he really feels
good luck
much love jenna
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