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writes: Hi, My girlfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago. She was really into me before we were going out and i wasnt too interested...but then when we started going out i grew really fond of her. We broke up after only 8 weeks. We were both really stressed at the time about different things and this also showed in our sex life as it was almost non existant. She broke up with me because of this stress and that she didnt want a relationship at that time and also because she thought we were better off as friends. We fought over petty things for about 2 weeks but 2 months later we are still friends but we both think about when we were together loads and still really care for eachother and when we go out as friends we both feel as though we want to be closer to eachother again. Neither of us have dated or done anything with anyone else since we broke up....but she still says she doesnt know what she wants and that i shouldnt hang around for her to make a decision...which i said im not. but do you think there is a chance we could still get back together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe hasnt said how long she wants me to wait for...i will give her as much time as she needs but that doesnt mean i am going to hang around forever. Its kind of hard for us to get space at the moment as we work at the same place. She says that i can do alot better than her and that when we were going out it wasnt the thing she wanted, but we hadnt been together long enough to work on it in a bad situation. Maybe it wasnt a great relationship but even so it is strange that we still think about eachother alot 2 months later and have an attraction but something is holding her back...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok...thanks. she does seem confused about what she wants...we will not see eachother over the summer period for about 2 months so i guess that will be the time for her to think about it. Should i leave it up to her to make contact with me? or should i check on how she is from time to time? more help is appreciated :)
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