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male
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30-35,
*harmzy
writes:she says she's happier and more in love with her current bf than she's ever been and as much as it pains me, i do feel happy for her. but i can't erase part of me that will always want to be with her a 2nd time. i'm 18, she's 17, we're both still young. but all i can see is myself with her and no one else.i met her last night and despite the fact that reality is very different and she is with smone new, i couldnt help but reminisce about the times i had with her. the way she sat close to me and touched my thigh and ran her fingers through my hair. she did that again ytd and then she's gone. she never contacts me after that. ytd was the 1st time we met in 2 months.what shld i do about this? its been going on for a year? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 January 2010):
Your ex has moved on, and you need to as well.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 January 2010):
Well you've decided you are quite happy to sit being tortured about this.
You have to make a decision that you WANT to get over someone for it to happen.
So it's up to you. You can either sit pining over her and listening to sad songs and wasting your time. OR you can decide that you will never forget her but that time in your life is now gone and that day dreaming about a perfect version of her and you having a perfect future together is just not helping anyone.
Remember her bad points. Go out with your friends and really look around for the GOOD things about all the girls you see around you. Don't compare them to her, just think about how cute the hair is, or how one has a nice smile.
Do not let yourself sit and think about her. Think about something else instead.
It's a new day and time you carried on with your real life, rather than sitting in a dream world.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Hun, you are going to have to let go and move on... you need to find yourself a gf. Your ex has clearly moved on with her life and by telling you that she is happier with her current bf tells you that she wouldnt come back to you as she was not as happy when she was in a relationship with you.
Honeygirl
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