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writes:I'm 15, it's been 3 months with the boyfriend and we have had sex once and I know we're going to do it again. I know I have strong feelings for him, I tell myself I'm in love but how do I truly know? Because if I didn't love him I wouldn't have sex with him right? How do I know if I'm fooling myself, I want to be in love with him so that sex won't be for the wrong reason!! help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): well..I can't tell if your in love or not..YOU and only YOU can know this..but you don't!^^'''
perhaps it would be easier for you to think about it..tell you :'if *your bf* was in such situation..what would i do?' and if that doesn't help..then give it time!one day, you will wake up and say :'oh boy, i can't live without him anymore!'
and for the other thing..having sex at 15 perhaps for some people it's ok..but just when they truly love each other and are aware of it..=/ some guys..at an young age..think only about sex..:s yes it's quite pathetic..but if i was in your place..i would think about it twice before having sex again..=\ the day you'll know[and be sure about it] that you love him..and that he loves you more than anything then from that day you decide what you're gonna do..
hope i helped!!:]
take care..^^
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 Children and young adults tend to have very strong emotions. Infatuation is usually confused for love. I'm sorry, but you are too young to have sex. Have you seen how many young girls post here about being pregnant at 12, 13, 15?????
Boys your age just want sex and they want a lot of girls. The problem with having sex with boys your age is that you will become overly attached to him, expect things from him that he is too young to comply with. They are too young for commitment to one girl.
The main reason for young girls to wait until they are older is to avoid pregnancy and heartbreak, as well as STD.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (22 November 2008):
no1 can really tell you if you are in love or not. it;s only you who can tell. sometimes we confuse love with lust. also you are very young, so it probably is not love right now as 3 months is not a long time to be completely in love with someone. love is when you know that person inside and out and you can't live without them. all that sort of stuff. too much to explain. but you don't need to be in love with him to sleep with him, as long as you really care for eachother and it means something special to you.
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