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writes:Well I like this guy and I am not so sure if he likes me because one minute he smiles and stares at me the next minute he is moody and doesn't even look at me. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 I just don't understand how children are thinking about romantic relationships so early in life.
Don't take boys seriously just yet. They will like a lot of girls until the day comes that they are ready to settle down.
No doubt he likes you, but he is too young to take seriously. Be his friend. Say hello. Please keep things easy on yourself and don't have sex until you are 17 or 18. You will have so much heartache if you start romance so young because boys like a lot of girls and can't stick with just one until they are much older.
Also, when you develop a lot of friendships with boys and don't take it seriously, you will be able to have more fun with a lot of boys and no one gets hurt. The more friends you have, the happier you will be. If you fancy one in particular, and if you give in sexually, chances are he will back off soon because they are too young to be committed! You will also have heartbreak and a bad reputation.
Stay friends. Make a lot of friends with boys. But don't let any of them touch you until you are older. When you are older you will understand this better.
What have your parents told you about relationships at this age?
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reader, mima  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 You do nothing gal. You should put him off your mind for 1. if it is true he loves you, you can then love him back2. if he doesnt love u n he is just trying to be nice, then you see, u r off the hook. but be yourself towards him. Another thing, he might just be that way. may be he acts that way but deep inside, isn't that. ppl have mood swings atimes and every person has his own behaviors. wat i know is he definately likes u either as a friend or even as a person cos guys dont smile at whom they dont like.
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