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writes:Hello everyone im Ryder,I have this issue that has been a major problem for about 2 years and going.. Its about a girl that has driven a knife through my heart.I use to live in Qatar for all my life and 2~ years ago i moved to Egypt. When i had lived in Qatar i fell in love with my neighbour 5 blocks away we were first friends and got closer and closer till i reached the point where i realised i deeply loved her.As i am quite shy i didn't know what to do at first so i acted normal but she did sense something was up with me.. And after about a week i made my move.I first started doing simple moves to show i really care about her and after a week of gaining her attention i was walking her home and i just told her: "R*** for the past week i have been going crazy i realised i love you so much that i would do anything to have you in my life.." she didn't know what to say she just looked at me so to cut to the chase i approched her and kissed her for like 5 seconds and pulled back and then she kissed me. Doing so time passed and we were going out for about 2 years and we were very close i use to go and spend holdiays with her family chrismas, new year etc..Later on after those 2 years i had some problems and Qatar and just hated my life for some reason i was on alcohol and many things i had friends that were a very bad influence on me and i didn't know what to do so i just walked away from my problems.. I did say good bye to her but i didn't think it was enough.Me and her still talk on MSN we did try doing long distance but it didn't work out and she tells me she moved on, but i don't believe her i know deep down inside she still has feelings for me and strong feelings. I can't get over her i have tried everything, sex, drugs, alcohol, sports, anything to stop me from thinking about her it just doesn't work.I go to Qatar often and see her but this time after all that happened its going to be tough, i will be going there in about 1 month and i don't know what to do when i see her i will just want to kiss her and make up for all that happened :(But i am only staying for 3 days so i have to make it right this time, can anyone give me any suggestions as to how i can fix things back with her? cause forgetting her is impossible i just can't so i have to make things right and get it over with./~/ Ryder
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reader, Ryder +, writes (10 May 2006):
Ryder is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have spoken to her on the phone last night and she is very happy that im coming, ofcoarse i didn't mention anything about what happened.
I think when i see her i will take her somewhere quite and settle this, tell her all that happened with my life and that it wasn't how i wanted things to end... I will tell her i still have deep feelings for her, hoping she will response positively.
Well when i get to Qatar and see how it goes, i will tell everyone what happened :P
So next month you might want to look at this page.
Thanks alot for your help.. Ryder :)
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reader, Aunt Ivy +, writes (10 May 2006):
Dear Ryder, You sound so mixed up! Before you approach this girl, have you have sorted out your own life? Have you finished with the drugs and alcohol? If so, you could go see this girl and you must be totally honest when you explain what has happened in your life and how you feel. Unfortunatley, if she has moved on with her life and only wants to be your friend you will have to accept that and try to move on with your life!
This is probably not what you want to hear but there isn't an easy answer!
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reader, Aunt Ivy +, writes (10 May 2006):
Dear Ryder, You sound so mixed up! Before you approach this girl, have you have sorted out your own life? Have you finished with the drugs and alcohol? If so, you could go see this girl and you must be totally honest when you explain what has happened in your life and how you feel. Unfortunatley, if she has moved on with her life and only wants to be your friend you will have to accept that and try to move on with your life!
This is probably not what you want to hear but there isn't an easy answer!
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reader, mysticgirly  +, writes (10 May 2006):
 HiI think you have to be sure of what you want Ryder before you chat to this woman ,be very clear in your mind what you wish to say and how you will present the fact that ,yes you have had your problems in the past and what you have learnt from them and how you have moved forward and changed now because of them I think she will need to hear this so she knows it is not the same as before, she may still be hurt and angry how things ended and she will need to express this but a very important point in this is that you need listen to her and you hear exactly from her how she feels if she tells you clearly she has indeed moved on I think you need to take this on board and respect this toohope this has helpedgood luck
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