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writes:I am so attached to him. Its been 10 months that we have been together. How do I stop being so clingy? I want to be a great girlfriend to him but I dont want to love him more then he loves me, which I think is starting to happen. I kinda feel that I cant live with out him because I love him so much, but I feel that he does love me just not to the point where he cant live without me. What do I do for him to think that I am the best girlfriend in the world? and stop feeling so strongly for him? Reply to this Question
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reader, vampire-kisses  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 its totally natural to feel that you cant live without your boyfriend, i know im the same i get paraniod that i love him more but youve just got to trust that you love each other the same.being a good girlfriend is being there when he needs you and noticing the little things and letting him get his own way now and again. if you feel that our becoming clingy you should spend more time with friends and a little less together that way the time you do spent together will be more special xx xx xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Im afraid thats the risk we take in life. You dont want to be putting barriers up thats for sure. Or you never get anywhere in life.If your instincts are telling you hes a good egg, go with the flow. You cant make anyone love you, or love you more. You just need to be yourself. Guys are good at hiding their true feelings and i bet he thinks along the same lines as you anyway, you just dont know it!You cant protect yourself from getting hurt if you love him by trying to love him less. If only it were that simple!Have fun and relax.C xxxxxx
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