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anonymous
writes:im 17 and my gf loves me. ive been seeing her for a year and a half and i dont love her any more. ive dumped her alotta times and made her cry lots im a fuckin evil person and i cant take it anymore please how can i make her understand? i need 2 get her 2 move on please help nething wil do i will let you kill me if it stops this madness, its ruining my life and my job ive thaught about killing her but i forget all that wen i see her and some how we end up having sex. just end this its sick and i feel my mind growing more evil everyday im going mental please help her move on and save my future. this is not a joke i hav no1 else 2 ask please!
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reader, no_one_should_feel_that  +, writes (7 August 2007):
dont exile yourself rom her go thats just wrong i had friend commit suicide cuase her bf did that same thing they are tell ng you too just tell her you dont like her anymore and dont give in to her temptations ... just tell her you dont love her anymore and you want to move on and say it is your fault and not hers it will make it easier on both of you...... trust me on this one dont just ignore her talk with her but keep reminding her you dont like her and that you broke it off ... and if she wont quit then go and get a girl and have her answer the phone once and have her pass it over but dont ignore her thats just wrong and some people cnat take that .....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): If you really mean what you say about not wanting this girl to be part of your life - STOP SEEING HER!
Just why are you seeing her anyway? Especially having sex with her? No wonder you're driving yourself crazy - and you are just using her and making her think you really want her because you sleep with her. You are playing some cruel games when you tell us you've dumped her "lots of times."
Stay away from her completely. Don't go to bars or clubs where you are likely to run into her; don't phone her; don't send any emails or texts. Just leave her alone.
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reader, smilingeyes  +, writes (7 August 2007):
If you want to help her move on then you have to stop having sex with her. There are emotions involved when a woman has sex and deep down inside she is thinking you have those same emotions. You are just hurting her more and prolonging the agony for both of you.
You also need to cut all ties with her. Don't answer her calls, don't email, text message...no contact whatsoever. It might be difficult but it will be the only way to get her to realize it's over.
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