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*eenGirl101
writes:I am in high school and I have this huge crush on a guy in my science class. I want to ask him out but I know that I'm not his type and I'm scared he might reject me. He stares at me all the time and he goes out of his way to talk to me. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): hii...
okayy, first of all, i would just like to say that "types" really don't matter as much as everyone thinks that they do. i myself have scored guys that i never expected to, and i've even been surprised by guys that i almost rejected. soo, i definitely encourage you to try and look past the fear that you are "not his type." because you never know. ")
as for the part about being afrad of rejection, i feel your pain on that. rejection is not a veryy pretty thing at all--it's embarrassing, hurtful, and just downright ugly. however, it can also make you a stronger person in the long run.
really, you won't ever know unless you try. and it seems to me that if this guy is always staring at you and going out of his way to talk to you, you have something worth trying for. whatever you decide to do, just DON'T build your life around him...because that's just asking for trouble either way. be strong, be confident, and go for it!!! ")
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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