She's blackmailing me to stay in the relationship

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, its very urgent ,kindly help me... I was in a relationship with a girl 4 yrs back .... she was a very sweet girl. But she would suspect me always and we fought often, if i didn't pick her call (during working hrs) ... then we had a nasty break up. She got married to some other guy,and i felt i could not live without her, i felt i lost something, and i called her up (i didn't know she was married) then we both kept and in touch she divorced her husband, and we both started going out together......again same pattern started .. she started suspecting me and we fought more often than ever(this time she had lost her job and would call me up every half hr, if i delayed in picking up the call she would scream and scold me).... now i am fed up of all this ... i thought she had changed but not ... now she is blackmailing me to either marry or she will commit suicide .... but in case i marry her i know i will never be happy and it will end in bitter divorce again for her ... Plzz tell me what to do ??? i am confused , my parents have set me up with other girl and i am happy too....I want to carry on with my life ,, if she goes to police bout it , would it be a huge issues ??? or what if she commits suicide ?? ...I feel like i don't a future any more ....Plzz help me out

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