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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I worked with this girl the past summer and got to know her really well. We get along great and became good friends and I developed feelings for her. I never made a move or made my feelings clear because of our co-worker status and a past relationship with her friend.We go to school far away from each other but still chat with or text each other once or twice every week since the summer. This summer she'll be back home and closer to the city I live in and I really want to ask her out but am unsure; I can't tell whether she has feelings for me as she is hard to read in that respect (though there have been times when I thought maybe she did, but I'm horrible at reading women and wishful thinking clouds judgment...). Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): (This is the original asker by the way, but from a different computer, so I don't know if the mods will confirm my identity...)
Well, we talk about a lot of things, not really work and school a lot. We've only ever had one or two conversations about relationships, but those were a while ago when I would never have tried to dig any deeper... I make her laugh and we have a lot of fun together, but I always kept it chaste because I didn't want to wade into the minefield that is going after the best friend of someone you were once seeing. I regret that now...
That friend zone thing is what I am concerned about. I just have no idea whether I'm in it or not and if I am, how to go about breaking out.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (19 March 2011):
 the one thing that you have to make sure you know about women is that it is really hard to read us, we can read a guy from head to toe but preted we are confused. You didnt really give much information about her, like what do you guys talk about when you guys do talk..is it just about work? or school cuz thats what most girls dont want a guy to talk about..get to know her more not just in a friend level ask about her past relationships then comment on how u would never leave such a beautiful girl like her,,break the friend zone and give her signals that you are not wanting to be in the frien zone :) good luck and if you have any questions ask
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