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writes:So, I'm digging this guy that I met online a couple of months ago. We've had three dates. The first two went really well and we seemed really into one another, but each just ended in a hug. Last night, he came over to hang out, watch movies, and play video games. We did just that and I figured maybe he would make a bit of a move as we're in a more intimate, comfortable setting. We had moments of where our hands would touch for a few minutes, but instead of holding it, he would move away, but then return for a second. He's told me he's shy with girls and that he is always worried of making the wrong move. So, I don't know whether he is shy or not interested. When he left last night, we ended in a hug, which lasted a little longer than the others, but still no kiss. I don't want to rush the poor guy, but I'm really into him and don't want him to end up thinking of me as just a friend. I'd make the first move, but I'm terribly nervous. Everyone says he seems interested because he texts me everyday and has taken me out twice and paid, even though I offered to pay for myself. I want this to develop into something and I think both of us are too scared to try anything. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the response. I have noticed that we get a little more flirty and comfortable whenever we exchange witty/teasing banter. Last night was just sort of awkward, though. We were pretty silent towards one another when we were watching movies and such and I just didn't know what to do. He usually texts me everyday, but he hasn't today. Naturally, I'm a little worried, haha. :\
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reader, 3much4u +, writes (19 June 2011):
i was a shy guy myself, so i think i should be right when i tell you that he is interested in you. a way of limiting awkwardness is to have some teasy, funny banter at each other. you could start if he is to shy and then he will catch on. this may not seem like much of an advice but believe me it breaks down many shyness and tension walls. once you guys get to the point where you are are confortable tellin each other anything, joking about anything, being straight forward at times the intimate part should flow alot smoother.
good luck
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