A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Ok so, I have two problems, I'm 18 and in a relationship with a girl and have been for 2 years now and I find my libido to be annoyingly high, we are sexually active but I just find myself wanting it far too much, even when we're just sitting around doing nothing and it's a real pain, I'm wondering if there is anyway I can help reduce my desires or my hormone levels.My other problem is I just can't seem to ever climax with my girlfriend, I can do it fine through masturbation but when it comes to anything with her, hand, oral or sex I just can't finish. I have a feeling it must be a physological thing with me because there's nothing wrong with what she's doing, I don't lack confidence so I guess it would be a subconcious thing? The same way maybe I've always had a bit of trouble urinating at urinals no matter how badly I need to go. Any advice would be much appreciated, thanks in advance and sorry for the long post!
View related questions:
confidence, libido Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Yos  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 If you masturbate to porn that could be a cause of your ejaculation issues. This link has good information about that:
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/any-suggestions-for-healing-delayed-ejaculation
A
female
reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 It's possible that what you might be suffering with is called "Death Grip Syndrome".
http://curedeathgrip.com/about.html
...............................
A
female
reader, PsychologyPsycho +, writes (20 August 2012):
 Don't worry,you're attracted to your girlfriend,you're going to have sexual desire for her constantly,but you can be intimate in many ways such as cuddling and massages if she doesnt feel upto it when you do.
With the climaxing,ive been with my fiancee for 6years and i find it quite difficult to climax as it seems you have to really concentrate on it,whereas with masturbation you can relax cos you're only trying to please yourself rather than you plus your gf.so what i do is sometimes i fantasise,just to make it a bit different,and i think of things which turn me on, and that usually decreases the psychological pressure i put myself under,and makes sex slightly different.
...............................
|
