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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and recently things between us are really confusing. when i call to his we jst sit and watch tv, or eat. we rarely talk and when we do its about nothing, jst basic conversation. when i try talk to him about it, he gets all defensive. we have some weekends when we have alot of fun and its like everythings fine, but that doesnt last for long. i feel like hes not interested in sex anymore, even though i try really hard. all he seems to be interested in is his job, which is know is important to him, but i feel like it comes before us. hes always depressed and angry about it. i feel like hes angry all the time, even when i try make him laugh. i dont even think he listens to me half of the time anymore. i dont have a job at the moment and he always seems to be thinking about this aswel and telling me to find one, or do something. im really trying to get work, but him preasuring me all the time is jst stressing me out and not helping at all. its jst making it worse. i feel like im losing him and i dont know what to do. i want our realationship to go back to the way it was before, i jst dont know if its possible. what should i do?? thanks for the help in advance
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 show him your making the effort to look for a job. 6 years is a long time to be with someone and maybe his getting bored or the love is fizzling out or maybe his taking an interest in other women which could be why he isnt interested in sex dont try so hard id say keep out of his way for a bit dont contact him let him contact you ignoring someone makes them eager to want to know you so try that however if that doesnt work then id say try and talk to him about your relationship and if your not happy i wouldnt waste any more time but ending the relationship and finding what you want from someone else willing to do that for you
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