A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok, I met this guy thru an online dating site. After months and months of talking on the phone..then me being in a serious relationship that he knew about. We still kept in contact thru it all. After the break-up about two months ago, we finally made it official and went out on a date. He still calls me, we text back and forth and have gone out a second time (movies and dinner). The thing is..we don't act like we're dating when we're out. He's polite, pays for whatever we end up doing..I offer to pay my part but he refuses to take my money, and at the end of the night..it's like a hug and talk to you later 'buddy'Geeez I wonder if guys call girls late at night just to talk..nothing sexual. Go out with them, we're always laughing and have lots in common, but at the end of the night NOTHING! Maybe we talked for sooo long on the phone, now he wants to get to know the real me (in person). Or decided..she's just a good friend. Btw last night he called just to talk..had a really good conversation, and laughed a lot. Then, a call came thru for him and he had to go. He said he'd call me later. I figured..'yeah, maybe another day.' But no, a few hrs. later he did call again, but I missed his call. :-(
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reader, jeet  +, writes (5 January 2009):
Looks like you have a wonderful person as your companion.
See life does not give us what we want, more often than not it gives us, what we actually need.
May be you need a person as stable as him in your life.
both of you enjoy each others company i mean thats a great thing. Howevr i would caution you to haste. just give your self some more time to get to know the real HE as well as let him know the real YOU.
Dont worry too much, you are blessed to have such a person in your life. He will take care of when to pop THE question. My gut feeling says so.
All the best. Just feel loved and enjoy life/
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