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female
age
36-40,
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writes: Okay, So my boyfriend who I have mention has been stressed with college and having to spend a good amount of money on nessecary purchases. I have been trying to give him space, I feel that maybe if i dont give he will want me more?? I want to talk to him and tell him how im feeling and I want to to have a neutral conversation with him. He has been distant and sometimes wont say i love you but then he will again. I cant figure this out. If there any guys who understand this and get distant please help me get him to come back to his oldself. Please!!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (28 September 2007):
Most guys don't feel comfortable saying "I love you." Since he does it sometimes he probally does love you. Guys tend to be more nonverbal. Ask him to a picnic and listen to music, the idea being to be around him without too much pressure him to talk. He will talk when he's ready. Be there for him.
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