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writes: I asked a guy in his late 20's about a female friend and he blushed and seemed to get genuinely shy and embarrassed - is this a sign he likes her? I think she should go for it but she doesn't think he is interested in her but I think the fact that he blushed is a pretty clear sign.He clearly adores her but she thinks it's as a friend, nothing else and he won't seem to make the first move yet he clearly thinks she is wonderful. I think he is worried about looking sleazy...Do you think I should encourage to her to go for it and make the first move if she likes him? I think the signs are all there but I don't want to encourage her to do anything stupid, but these two are made for each other!
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reader, tux +, writes (11 April 2006):
Well are they both currently looking for a relationship? if you feel they would be great together, I wouldn;t see why you wouldn't push them together.. Though I am curious what you think she'd do that is stupid?
But there are some sneaky ways of getting them together.. :) Like inviting them both out for the movies or dinner or something else.. and then politely excusing yourself for some quote unquote emergency you need to take care of. or you can talk her into asking him.. or push him to asking her.. The one thing that makes a guy shy is the fear of rejection and he might fear that she'd reject him. which may make their friendship a bit awkward for a bit..
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