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anonymous
writes:I was with a manic-depressant girl for two years and I know she loved me because she stayed with me even when I physically and emotionally abused her on a daily basis. I really hate to admit this, but I have put her in the hospital twice during our relationship and called her many bad names and I think I even convinced her that her family and friends are terrible. I know all of that sounds extremely horrible but I can assure you, I have changed in every way possible! We broke up four months ago because she caught me cheating on her with a girl that is a total player (I found this out last week). Anyways, I really want my original girl back but she just won't answer my calls or agree to meet up with me somewhere. I don't know what to do! I need her in my life! Pleas help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009):
But the real question is Does she need YOU in her life?
via con dios.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): get a grip , your a monster if you loved her you would have supported her. how trustworthy are you? if you loved her you would never have cheated on her.
im guesing this girl you cheated with doesn't want you, and your feeling lonely and can't stand it anymore. like you said ' a player' seems like you don't give.
i don't blame your girlfriend you have been a total twonk.
how can you make it up to her? let her get her life together! she won't trust you, hell she probably never will again. You really love her ? then let her be and find someone deserving of her affections.
think about her , not just yourself. about her wants her needs. because that problem you wrote just expresses me me me me me. theres nothing about her feelings, her wants her needs.
she won't ansaw your calls? talk to you?
get the message already and get over yourself.
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reader, Katy.  +, writes (25 March 2009):
 if she's sensible, she'l stay away from you, i don't think you will ever get her back and by the sounds of things you need to learn from what you've done and deal with the consequences, if you say you've changed; move on and deal with the fact that you probably won't get her back, i know i deffinatley wouldn't if i'd seen sense.
if you love someone, why treat them like that? it's disgusting if you ask me and i think she should of left you way before she saw you cheating.
sort yourself out, its guys like you that put the rest to shame, i'm only 15 and i might not know alot, but i do know one thing and that's right from wrong and i'm sure many other people will agree with me.
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