I want my ex back. We slept together but he hasn't said about getting back together yet?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi I need some help in a confusing situation. Me and my ex broke up about seven months ago because of a stupid misunderstanding, we were both very stubborn about it but hurt feelings got in the way of sorting it out earlier. anyway as time went by we saw each other and i knew by the way he looked at me that he still cared for me and i really really wanted to get back with him but i never approached him or made an attempt because i wanted that to come from him and anyway he started to initiate contact by texting and we carried on like that for a while, so we finally got back together one night and i was so so happy i didnt even care if it was just that one night but i havent seen him since then out..he has texted me but there was no serious talk about getting back together or meeting or anything?? I did play it very cool that night and it was him that came over to me, so could he just not be aware of how i feel about him and thats why hes not suggesting we get back together? I am so confused because im worried that he'll end up getting a new girlf or something? I think the next time he texts im going to bite the bullet and tell him that i want to get back together and not just a casual thing. but how do i approach this? i dont wanna scare him off.. what should i say, the past seven months have been so so hard and i really need this situation to have a conclusion asap

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