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I want my ex back he doesn't want to commit

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Question - (2 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2009)
A female South Africa age , anonymous writes:

We are divorced because of alhohol and a bad woman. My husband used to mastribate in his drunken states in front of the kids and he tried to rape my best friend underaged daughter. I left him to give my kids a better life. Now after 6 years I realized that I still love him. (Crazy hey) He also still loves me and wants us back and stopped drinking. Problem is he is "involved" with another woman who he calls a "friend". He recons she is convenient and looks after him sexually and she feeds him. He said I must wait until he makes enough money as he is a salesman and with the economic situation he is not making enough money. (Which is true. He doesnt want to commit at all and said it is my decision if I want to wait until such time. Dont know what to do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

you want to get back with a rapist? are you not concerned about your kids safety.

why wait for someone who will not leave his lover. your ex is a user and he has used you, and his lover. he will not leave her and you will still be waiting all the while your life will slowly fading away. you don't seem to mind that he isusing this other woman financially and sexually. remember she is not the enemy, HE IS.

your choice but is he really a choice?

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